In this first stage of every relationship, we are willing to swallow the most unrealistic lies to keep having good sex, not being alone, or whatever it is you want in a relationship.
My ex did that...he told me he loved me. And we didn't have sex before we married and then he turned me down on our honeymoon and there were other times he deliberately did that, too.
Read The Ego Trick by Julian Baggini. There was a very accomplished forensic medicine expert in UK who worked as a heterosexual worker at night time out of her compulsion to feel good looking. She was successful. In your case there were mentioned who made her contract syphilis, she was poor and broken, and not all of them have the courage to disclose things previously. Girls who falter seek love which they don't get from good men. It's a social evil. We must send such girls to rehab because they are vulnerable and fall for the dating cycle all over the world. I know two girls from Peru who wanted to be doctors. Indian guys shared that they are beautiful and repeatedly misused them. And never returned to them leaving them dirty and not cared for during those years and they lost their self-image entering the vicious circle of dating and love-making.
In this first stage of every relationship, we are willing to swallow the most unrealistic lies to keep having good sex, not being alone, or whatever it is you want in a relationship.
My ex did that...he told me he loved me. And we didn't have sex before we married and then he turned me down on our honeymoon and there were other times he deliberately did that, too.
It must be a very painful situation emotionally, I'm so sorry you had to go through that, my friend.
Read The Ego Trick by Julian Baggini. There was a very accomplished forensic medicine expert in UK who worked as a heterosexual worker at night time out of her compulsion to feel good looking. She was successful. In your case there were mentioned who made her contract syphilis, she was poor and broken, and not all of them have the courage to disclose things previously. Girls who falter seek love which they don't get from good men. It's a social evil. We must send such girls to rehab because they are vulnerable and fall for the dating cycle all over the world. I know two girls from Peru who wanted to be doctors. Indian guys shared that they are beautiful and repeatedly misused them. And never returned to them leaving them dirty and not cared for during those years and they lost their self-image entering the vicious circle of dating and love-making.
Wow, I will look for the book.
It's sad what a lack of virtue can do. Thanks for telling me about it, Purva.